He spent a couple hours watching ducks and warming his old bones in the sun. For his 16th, I loaded him into the car (which he doesn’t mind at all) and took him to a park by the lake. “I’ve had my cat since he was 6 months old. Got mad at me because I took my cat (16M) to a park for the cat’s birthday. Now I’m confused and lost and I don’t know what to do or think.” Things didn’t add up and I messaged the girl listed as his sister who bluntly responded telling me that her brother wasn’t sick with anything that they were aware of and advising me to try and catch an earlier flight back home. In the hotel I used the Wifi and my laptop to search him on google and found his Facebook, Linkedin, Instagram, and his Tumblr. What started out as a trip to a new city to help care for someone turned into pretty hard sex, and afterwards he put me in a hotel because his family was making a ‘last minute appearance’ out of concern before he started treatment and he didn’t want them to think he was ordering people off the internet to care for him without asking them for help first. “Tl DR: I had sex with a man who told me he was terminally ill. In a weird place emotionally and not sure what to do. I flew out to “care” for him and he basically kicked me out of his house after I slept with him.